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Saturday, January 12, 2013

Birthday Bash Fun January 12!!!

Welcome to the Birthday Bash Blog Hop, January 12!! Today is Zenita's aka Scrappinwith’Z’s (that's me) 50th Birthday and Shawnee’s Birthday is Monday so we decided to throw our selves a Birthday party and invite some of their friends along!! To help celebrate Jen’s Digi Stamps and Scrapbook Stamp Society has graciously gave us some digis to give away to a couple of our commenter’s!! Plus Chriss has some Washi tape for another commenter. So please leave a comment at each of our friend’s blogs for your chance to be a winner. I'm your hostess today (since I'm the oldest birthday girl)…lol. I hope you enjoy all my friend's creations!!
Here's my card with a cute digi from Jen's Digi Stamps!! I made the ribbon on this card to look like it's pearl since the cancer ribbon for mesothelioma is pearl. I also used Viva Pearl Pen-cream to make it look like there is pearls around the Spellbinder die cut. A white Gelly Roll was used to make dash lines around the diecut and the sentiment that I made using MS Word. The corners of the sentiment was done with a retired corner punch from Making Memories. The white flowers from Celebrate It was chalked with ColorBox chalk. The ribbon and the bear's nose was filled in with Inkssential Glossy Accents. Zig adhesive and ATG adhesive was also used. The pattern paper is from It Takes Two and me & My Big Ideas. The base of the card is Bazzill.
Copics were used to color the digi:W00, W1, W3, BV20, R02, R17, R46, E04, E09, E09, E13, E31, E39, E55, E57, E59, C00, C0, C1
  Today is a little bit different start for a hop. In my section of Southeast Missouri our local TV KFVS12 has a thing called "Think Pink" on the 12th of each month. It's all about breast cancer. So, since my birthday is on the 12th we are going to start, beginning this month, spotlighting different cancers. I recently was approached by a beautiful young lady asking me to share her story with mesothelioma cancer. Here's Heather's story:



How Cancer Made me Thankful

My daughter was born on August 4, 2005. My family and I were ecstatic. Life was good. At this time, I really learned what people meant when they said it takes a village to raise a child, because our home was full of our loved ones. My husband and I enjoyed the visits from my family, his family, and our friends. We were very happy in those first few months of Lily’s life. That happiness was short-lived, however, because after I went back to work I started to feel that something was wrong. I was extremely tired all the time, and found myself out of breath frequently. At first, I just attributed all of those things to my body simply adjusting to being a new mom. Later, after I finally decided it was severe enough to see my doctor, I found out that what are usually just new mom symptoms, fatigue, exhaustion, and a severe lack of energy, turned out to be symptoms of mesothelioma.

Without my knowledge, I’d been exposed to asbestos as a child, which is what caused my diagnosis of malignant pleural mesothelioma. According to my doctor, I had about 15 months to live unless I sought medical treatment. As any mother in my situation would, I looked at my daughter and my husband and I knew that I had to live, and that I’d do whatever it took to stay alive and raise my daughter. I needed to be there to watch her grow up. Whatever it took’ wasn’t easy, but it was necessary.

We had to go to Boston to see one of the best mesothelioma doctors in the country. In a surgery called an extrapleural pneumonectomy, he removed my left lung on February 2, 2006 and I spent 18 days in the hospital recovering. After that, I spent an additional two more months recovering and preparing my body for chemotherapy and radiation treatments. While I was in Boston, I made friends who were going through similar things as me. While I was there, my daughter was in South Dakota living with my parents. A ‘village’ to raise Lily really came together at that point. My parents work full time, and they needed help. It seemed everyone who ever loved us, from kids I used to babysit to friends from our church came together to help my parents. While they were at work, our friends were watching Lily. I will never be able to express my gratitude to those people who helped during that awful time. Knowing that Lily was in such good hands was so important to me and it helped me to be able to concentrate on my health and recovery first and foremost.

I missed a lot of Lily’s firsts while I was in the hospital. I saw them through grainy photos that my mom would email and my husband would print off for me. The nurses would ooh and aah over her when we looked at the pictures. I tried not to cry, but it was hard. We took everything one day at a time, and it was the love and support of our friends and family that made the day-to-day possible. Now, my family likes to embrace life at all times. We now understand that from horrible situations comes good, even if it doesn’t seem possible at first. Despite my horrible ordeal with cancer, we formed bonds with our loved ones we never had before. My daughter and my parents are so close, and even time and distance cannot change that. I am so thankful every single day.  

Thanks for stopping by to celebrate with us today and please keep on hopping to see what Shawnee Penkacik our next birthday girl has created for your enjoyment!!


1. Zenita Smith-- http://www.scrappinwithz.blogspot.com
2. Shawnee Penkacik--http://quiverofangels.blogspot.com
3. Tanya J - http://little-scrapper.blogspot.com
4. Yolie - http://www.justyolie.com
5. Sher- http://www.patternsbysher.blogspot.com
6. Cathy-http://cathyplus5.blogspot.com
7. Chriss - http://chrissandlou.blogspot.com/
8. Robin- http://www.thecricutscrapper.blogspot.com/
9.Anita ~  http://www.anitaandbugs.blogspot.com

I have entered this card into these challenges:


2 Sister’s Challenge Blog—Challenge #126 Celebrations http://2sisterschallengeblog.blogspot.com/2013/01/challenge-126-celebrations.html
A Gem of A Challenge—Challenge #62 New Beginnings http://pinkgemchallengeblog.blogspot.co.uk/2013/01/challenge-62-dt-call.html
AllSorts Challenge Blog—Challenge #189 Dies & Punches http://allsortschallenge.blogspot.com/2013/01/week-189-dies-and-punches.html
Stamp Your Life, LLC—Challenge #2 New Beginnings http://stampyourlifeblog.blogspot.com/2013/01/challenge-2-new-beginnings.html
Live Laugh Stamp Blogspot—Challenge 1 Word-Play Anything http://livelaughstamp.blogspot.co.uk/2013/01/word-play-saturday-1-january.html
ATC’s Cards and Attitudes—Anything Goes
Lady Anne’s Challenges—Friday Anything Goes with a Sentiment  http://www.ladyanneschallenges.com/sentimental-friday.html
Fairy Tale Challenges—Challenge #58 Animals and Pets
Fat Pages and Cards with Attitude—Anything Goes with a Sentiment  http://fatpageswithattitude.blogspot.co.uk/
Joyful Stampers—Inspire Me Fridays Anything Goes--  http://joyfulstamper.blogspot.com/2013/01/inspire-me-fridays-91-anything-goes.html
Totally Papercrafts Friday Challenges—Ribbon-http://totallypapercrafts.blogspot.com/2013/01/challenge-149-ribbon.html
Wags and Whisker’s Challenge—Challenge 95 Celebrations http://wagsnwhiskersrubberstamps.blogspot.com/2013/01/challenge-95-celebrations.html

27 comments:

JustYolie said...

First I want to wish you a very Happy Birthday!!!

Thanks for sharing Heather's story of survival! I'm looking forward in participating on you monthly awareness blog hops.

Danielle said...

Happy birthday, I hope your day is going to be wonderful!!!

Rhonda Emery said...

hope your day is great love the card. hugs

Robin said...

Beautiful card and beautiful story. It really does help when family and friends are able to come together selflessly to help one another. Happy Birthday!! I hope your day is a great one, and I have enjoyed being on the hop with you.
(:(:Smiles:):)

Robin

ShersL84bed said...

Amazing story. I wish for continued health and healing for Heather.

Zenita, this is a super cute card.

Happy Birthday friend.

Smiles Sher

Jenny Lilac said...

Happy 50th birthday! And many more!

CraftyBeginner said...

Enjoy your day! Happy Birthday!

Shawnee Penkacik said...

Happy Birthday!! Thank you for sharing Heather's story with us. She is truly inspiring!!

Marianne said...

Happy, Happy birthday, Zenita. And thanks so much for sharing with us. i love the story, and i love your sweet card.

marianneDOTwanhamATgmailDOTcom

scrapclose2theheart said...

Happy Birthday & that was truly a beautiful story that you shared with us! Thank you.

Chriss America Real said...

Happy Birthday Zenita! Reading Heathers story makes us remember that it is a gift to grow older and to get to see our children grow up! Thank you for such a wonderful post.

Hugs & birthday kisses,

Chriss

Billie A said...

Happy Birthday and great card, love the coloring on the bear, great embellishments.
Touching story you told.
Thanks for joining us this week at Catch the bug 3d birthday celebration and challenge.

Shirley-anne said...

Happy belated birthday wishes , Hope that there were a few happy surprises on the day .
Thank you for sharing inspirational story .
Your card is so pretty , the teddy just so huggable and the flower are awesome . Thanks for sharing on Kraftyhands Challenge Blog .
Shirley-Anne

Melissa S. said...

Happy Birthday to you a little late. What a great story you shared and what a good idea you have. I love the card you shared today and I wish you luck with all you do.

Ellie said...

A really beautiful card. Beautiful design,and embellishments. Thanks so much for sharing!

Jodie Mackrell said...

great card! thanks for joining in on Bugaboo's 3rd birthday challenge at catch the bug and thank you for sharing Heathers story!

Sue - bearhouse said...

Thank you so much for sharing your story, I was really deeply moved by it. Your are so brave and I admire your attitude to life.

Your card is stunning. I love the image, your colouring is fabulous and all the detailing is gorgeous.
Thank you for taking part in A Gem of a Challenge
Take care
Sue

Cathy said...

First off, happy birthday, sorry late to the party, hubby in hospital, your card is adorable. love the coloring and the digi is so cute. The story was also sad as well as inspirational!
cathyplus5.blogspot.com

Bianca said...

You have made such a lovely card for a hearth warming story. Heather and her family are so brave, I wish them the best!
Thank you for joining us at Fairy Tale Challenge!
xx
Bianca

Rose said...

very pretty and i love the sweet bear :)
Thanks so much for joining us on Stamp Your Life for our New Beginnings challenge.

Desire Fourie said...

This is so pretty. Great design. Thanks for sharing your talent with us. Good luck.
Hugs
Desíre
{Lady Anne’s Paper Crafts DT Member}
{Doing Life – my personal blog}

carol said...

lovely creation, thanks for sharing with us at TPC and thanks for sharing this beautiful story it is lovely to here that something good came out of something really horrible to happen to a family x carol

Tammy Miller said...

Wow thanks for sharing your story! What a Great Project! I just love it thanks so much for joining our Birthday Theme and for helping us celebrate our 3rd birthday!

Pinkies Sparkly Creations said...

brilliant card love the colours thanks for joining us at fat pages and cards with attitude and good luck emma xx

Sara said...

very nice, thanks for playing along with CMM!

Soma Das said...

Definitely a cool card, I love your image & embellishments,so fun. thank you so much for playing fat pages and cards with attitude !!!

SOMA
Fat pages and cards with attitude DT

Andree said...

A wonderful celebration card. The colour, flowers and image are fabulous.
Thanks for joining in the Kraftyhands January challenge and good luck x